Friday the 13th: The Return of the Goddess
- Ché

- Feb 13
- 3 min read

For generations, Friday the 13th has been wrapped in superstition.
Whispers of misfortune.
Symbols of fear.
Stories passed down without question.
But from a Divine Feminine perspective, this day was never unlucky.
It was sacred.
And at the heart of it stands the powerful Norse goddess Freya.
Who Was Freya — And Why She Matters Now
Freya is one of the most revered goddesses in Norse mythology.
She is not a gentle, passive archetype.
She is layered, fierce and luminous.
Freya embodies:
Sacred sexuality and desire
Emotional depth and grief
Fierce independence
Leadership in love and war
She rides between realms.
She chooses half of the fallen warriors for her own hall.
She weeps tears of gold.
She wears a falcon cloak that allows her to shapeshift.
Freya is softness and strength woven together.
She teaches us that we do not have to choose between being tender and being powerful.
We can be both.
And right now — that integration is essential.
The Embodiment of Freya
To embody Freya is to:
Honour your sensuality without shame
Speak your truth without shrinking
Feel your grief without collapsing
Choose yourself without apology
Trust your intuition over external approval
Freya does not seek permission.
She moves in sovereignty.
In a world that often teaches women to dilute themselves, her energy is medicine.
For women navigating perimenopause, motherhood, career evolution, identity shifts — Freya whispers:
You are not losing yourself. You are transforming.
The shedding is sacred.
The Sacred Code of Friday the 13th
The number 13 belongs to the Moon.
There are approximately 13 lunar cycles in a solar year.
Thirteen mirrors the rhythm of the feminine body.
Thirteen represents endings and beginnings woven together.
It is not a number of chaos.
It is a number of cycles.
Friday, named for Freya, was once a day devoted to love, fertility, magic, sensuality and sovereignty.
So when Friday and 13 meet, we are witnessing a convergence of:
Lunar feminine wisdom
Earthly embodied power
Heart-led sovereignty
This is not misfortune.
It is amplification.
How the Divine Feminine Was Silenced
As patriarchal systems expanded, many goddess traditions were dismantled.
Lunar calendars were replaced by rigid solar ones.
Feminine intuition was dismissed as irrational.
Wise women were feared and persecuted.
Over time, Friday the 13th — once a holy convergence of feminine power — became a superstition.
Fear was easier to control than sovereignty.
But suppression does not erase truth.
It only buries it.
And buried seeds eventually rise.
The Return of the Divine Feminine
Across the planet, we are witnessing a rebalancing.
Women reclaiming their voices.
Men embracing emotional intelligence.
Communities honouring cycles and nature once again.
Conversations about nervous system regulation, hormonal health, intuitive leadership and embodied wisdom becoming mainstream.
This is not random.
It is cyclical.
The Divine Feminine is not about gender.
It is an energetic principle:
Intuition
Collaboration
Cyclical living
Compassion
Emotional intelligence
Connection to nature
For centuries, society over-valued linear productivity, domination and control.
Now we are remembering balance.
The return of the feminine restores:
Softness without weakness.
Strength without aggression.
Power without oppression.
And that balance is deeply needed in a world experiencing burnout, disconnection and ecological crisis.
Why This Matters Right Now
We are living in a time of acceleration.
Faster technology.
Higher stress.
Greater polarisation.
Without feminine balance, systems collapse under their own rigidity.
The Divine Feminine brings:
Regeneration
Reflection
Sustainability
Emotional depth
Community care
Freya’s energy reminds us that love is not passive — it is powerful.
That grief is not weakness — it is sacred.
That sensuality is not indulgence — it is life force.
When we honour Friday the 13th through this lens, we are not playing with superstition.
We are participating in remembrance.
How to Honour the Divine Feminine
You do not need elaborate rituals.
The return of the Goddess begins in small embodied choices.
🌙 Honour Your Cycles
Notice when your body calls for rest.Respond instead of overriding.
🔥 Reclaim Desire
Ask yourself: What do I truly want?Not what is expected — but what feels alive.
🕯 Create Sacred Space
Light a candle.Sit quietly.Listen inward.
✍️ Journal With These Prompts
Where have I been shrinking to stay comfortable for others?
What would sovereignty look like here?
🌿 Move Your Body With Reverence
Not to burn calories.
Not to perform.
But to inhabit yourself.
Friday the 13th as Portal
From a Divine Feminine perspective, this day is a gateway.
A remembering.
A reclamation.
An invitation to embody Freya’s courage and compassion.
Perhaps Friday the 13th was only ever “unlucky” for systems that relied on women forgetting who they are.
But you are remembering.
And when you remember, you do not become dangerous.
You become whole.
If you feel it today, pause.
Place your hand on your heart.
And whisper:
I trust my rhythm and honour my cycles, today, I reclaim my sovereignty.
The Goddess was never gone.
She was waiting to be embodied. 🌙✨




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